Reddit aita pregnant. I feel awful but things are what they are.

I currently own 4 rental properties with my fiancé. There are 3 different fathers, she receives child support from 2 of them, and she is still with the 3rd one and they have been for 5 years. Also solo therapy, a psych evaluation and maybe family therapy. Banning him from the house is step 1. He came in to the relationship with 2 kids (11f, 8m) that he has full custody of. It is a major medical ordeal to gestate multiples at the same time. It doesn’t MAKE you selfish, it just gives you an excuse to toss out to cover your behavior. AITA for telling my SIL I will disown her if she gets pregnant? Not the A-hole. I'm a fifty-five year old woman and my son D [26m] and his wife J [30f] announced to me over thanksgiving that they are expecting their second child in six years. Their pregnancy announcement wasn’t about you. I had "morning" sickness all day every day for my entire pregnancy. Waste-Independent-21. OP, your family is beautiful, your husband is absolutely a saint and your 'family' and your trash ex-friend are totally the AHs here. We already were upset because this was supposed to be Opal’s special moment and Kelly announcing her pregnancy was completely inappropriate. My pos inlaws literally helped kidnap my three year old for two weeks and I couldn't get a court to mandate no contact with them. I (43f) and my wife (42f) have been together for 6 years now. We have a ton of the basic furniture needs for ourselves (dining room table, couch, tv stand, bed, etc). Asking her to step down because of the idea of a potential pregnancy seems ridiculous. •. They both knew of our pregnancy, and were very happy for us. While women have been pregnant throughout all of history, it is only relatively recently that twin pregnancies weren't a likely death sentence for mother and children. If nothing else OP should be teaching his daughter to have more self respect than to be with a boy who knocks her up and doesn’t provide for her AND wants to leach off her parents. r/AmItheAsshole. My (30F) sister-in-law (32F) is 8 months pregnant with her and my brother’s (32M) first child. I told her that she was only 14 weeks along and the other woman was extremely pregnant and also had a pram and toddler with her. AITA for not telling my ex wife that my fiancé is pregnant? My ex wife Carly (39F) and I (40M) got divorced 10 years ago. I (33m) have a 6 month pregnant wife (33f) and kid (1. Time to tell them a job is 100% not optional and they need to be able to raise and pay for this child or adoption. AITA for confronting my pregnant sister in law over a cruel Instagram post. I 29 male have 2 sisters Sierra who is 33 and Selena who is 27. In turn, my brother and husband had quite a large argument that most of our family witnessed. Same thing with cravings. About 2 years into our marriage, we started trying to a baby but no luck. Growing up, I was always closer to our mother since we were closer in age and had similar interests. If it was me I’d be happy for my best friend and then get on with my wedding. Had her boys, same age as your husband, on the same property their whole lives. If they can't, the pregnant person must be paid their full wage for the remainder of their pregnancy. There was a thread last week where a babysitter let her own mother in the house for like 15 minutes and the homeowner saw it in her ring doorbell and went off at the sitter and fired her. I F24, BF Harry M24, SIL Leah F27, and her bf Greg M27 were hanging out and they announced to us that they were going to try for a baby. You decided your wife was the priority, your mother's fiance decided his future spouse was his priority and not you or your wife. The problem was John and Caroline only made enough for Jane and not It's not technically dress code, we are supposed to wear more business dress but understandable as she's pregnant she wants to be comfortable. 5m). In the same vein, morphine metabolism occurs faster in a pregnant woman, so women will need a higher dose than non-pregnant woman to achieve the same effect. The blatant disregard for your daughter’s safety and comfort are upsetting and disgusting. My husband and I stepped up so she could finish college, which she did. She’s currently 6 months pregnant and wants me to do more for her AITA for thinking my mom is trying to force me into teen pregnancy? There is a long background for context, sorry for the large amount of text. We had a high risk pregnancy and didn't tell anyone. Absolutely great kids, though the youngest does have hyperactive ADHD. My mom was a traditional “helicopter mom” growing up and even though I’m almost 30, continues to struggle with control issues and not having as much of a say in my life as she used to and struggles that she is not my go-to person Take a meal over. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. . She’s still in high school, doesn’t have a job, and is living our mom (who also doesn’t have a job either). Practical_Special365. Throwing out birth control while being sexually active is also insanely irresponsible and dumb. I put the kid to bed every night and put him back to sleep if he gets up in the middle of the night. Boyfriend should be banned from stepping into the house. So Angela had her boys and husband go around in the middle of the night AND KILL HER WHOLE FAMILY. NTA- pregnancy may screw with your hormones and make you somewhat irrational and more emotional but it doesn’t generally out and out change your personality. AITA for telling my pregnant wife being pregnant isn’t as bad as having cancer. When my sister was pregnant with my niece, she refused to let us throw her a baby shower at all because she was so scared. In Australia, we have safe work laws for pregnant people. " I'm just imagining some poor pregnant lady with a button up blouse for the office Like dude, I don't think they even make blouses for huge pregnant people, and yeah that would be uncomfortable as fuck AITA for kicking my daughter out of my house for being pregnant. I live in the dorms and got a new roommate this semester because my old one went home. He said to give him a little while and we’d go get one. My pregnant friend “Anne” (24F) asked if she could have the car seat since I was “just throwing it out anyway”. These are her texts : when I think back on my pregnancy I think of all the ways you hurt me. Mild antianxiety drugs or therapy, even meditation or yoga would help. She has a daughter (8) from a previous relationship. Cut them all off. Sort of, but pregnancy brain makes you do things more like put the milk in the pantry instead of the fridge. Throwaway, some details changed, mobile so formatting, etc. AITA for making my pregnant wife get up at 3am. I was mad, but. We currently have two children and a third on the way. Not the A-hole. " I didn't mean to say it out loud, but COME ON. sheramom4. Our whole family is excited for them of course, and since I am close to both of my sisters they gave me their gender ADMIN MOD. AITA for getting angry when my partner announced she’s pregnant? My partner (34f) and I (28m) have been together for 5 years. Reply. The last and smallest bedroom is a guest room. I (16f) swap houses between my moms (35f) and dad's. They are both married and are both also pregnant. Ask how you can help. She’s having a high risk pregnancy during a pandemic and already has a high risk for anxiety. I’m pregnant with my 2nd now and I left my cell phone in the fridge for some reason the other day. AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? Not the A-hole. Pregnancy isn't some magical shield against any and all criticism and things you don't wanna hear. First things first, I want to thank each and everyone of you who commented, voted, and gave their feedback and advice. I feel awful but things are what they are. I (26F) have a one year old daughter. note the trashcan was placed in the corner near the closet. AITA for not letting my pregnant daughter move in with me? Not the A-hole. Wishing you, your husband and your baby all the love and good vibes. These 7 months have been hard, her mood has changed to her being incredibly and easily irritable and emotional, starting to eat an increasing amount of junk, wanting For the record, no pregnancy tests and no doctor's visits your brother's aware of + her behavior makes me think you're not wrong for asking. First off, you did nothing wrong. Yeah, the appointment was organized under the assumption that I was pregnant (I got an ultrasound), but literally one of the first things the nurse did when I got there was a pregnancy test "because if I haven't had a period in 2-3 months, I'm either pregnant or there's something else wrong. Nope. My husband and I just moved into a new house. They’re not the source of your misfortune and even though you’re grieving, what you did was nasty. e. YTA. My daughter works part time, and her fiancé is a chef full ADMIN MOD. I wished she'd say something else. AITA for choosing my pregnant wife over my mom. I would snap one moment and cry the next. UPDATE. eventually got over it and did not want to trwat him separately than his siblings at first. We were very fortunate and got pregnant on the first try. You’d be wrong to try to force yourself to stay in a relationship that your heart isn’t into. Her name is Sarah and she is pregnant. But I knew what she was going to say. " We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I (32F) grew up in a low income household and was determined from an early age to start investing and owning real estate. And now half of my family is mad at her, and the other half is mad at me. AITA for announcing we are pregnant too early? So I (26F) and my husband (30M) decided to start our family. A few years ago my wife (not her mom) took her to get a birth control implant, and she was always happy on it. What I did say is that pregnant women's livers metabolise caffeine more slowly, so it hangs around in the body for longer, so you need a reduced dose to achieve the same effect. NTA- to be honest first 3 months is the “getting to you know” phase of a relationship much like the 3 month probation at a new job. This has been a really tough pregnancy The mostly likely thing to kill a pregnant woman is her partner. He just got a raise and wants to blow a good chunk of money on stuff for the house, namely a computer desk for him because he needs his gaming computer set up ASAP. Last week, I can’t help as much as everyone expected, she gets angry and accuses me of ruining her entire pregnancy. We have: a pregnant woman stealing food, man taking care of someone else's baby/pregnancy, super special food, throwaway account, and a weirdly involved parent taking the opposing side! Now we just need an obviously poorly behaving parent and their spoiled child and an extreme age gap relationship. By this point we had already been invited to the wedding of a couple of friends, 'Jack' and 'Jill'. Everyone went dead silent until I said "bruh. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ r/AmItheAsshole. Totally up to you and your partner when, where, how, and why you tell them. Pregnant and husbands single sister takes dibs on baby names. At first everyone I including me was excited about having a new niece or nephew. I graduated from pharmacy school with minimal debt and bought my first rental property. My sister has not spoken to me since, despite apologies, so clearly this hurt her deeply. AITA for saying not again and not being happy for my daughters pregnancy. His name is John (fake name). At some point they should have told her to go back to her seat. It’s been an incredibly exciting time and my partner and I are eagerly awaiting the arrival of our first child. Send cards to say you’re thinking of them. . I45f have a 27 year old daughter. They shouldn't rehome the dog, but there should be help for her. She consistently came up with new reasons not to have kids. As a woman who has been pregnant i agree with this. Things have been fine to a point, and I definitely appreciate them taking me in during my time of need. In March of this year, when my wife was 16 weeks pregnant, we learned the fetus had a fatal genetic defect known as trisomy 13. She has 6 kids, between the ages 10-11 months. I think AITA because even though Kelly announcing her pregnancy was inappropriate and her demands are ridiculous, calling her out in front of everyone wasn't the best way to handle it either. She just graduated and just got a job. Refusing to get you a pregnancy test is abusive. My 2nd pregnancy was horrible as far as my hormones! My husband was the only person that understood. That is not lost on me, I recognize ADMIN MOD. The vulnerability during pregnancy is intense and primal, I never judge pregnant women for feeling insecure. However one day after coming to a luncheon with our family she announced she was pregnant. Not for not congratulating them but for insulting them. By this point I was nearing 6 months pregnant. This is the price you’ve paid for a peaceful pregnancy, don’t lose sight of the fact that it was worth it. We went to fertility doctors after the first year ADMIN MOD. So my (29M) wife (29F) and I are expecting our first child in about a month, and I’d like to emphasize before getting into any of this that we are both very excited and love each other very much. The wedding was in early December. My wife is upset because she said I shouldn't have forced her to give up her seat, and that the seat was for pregnant people and she was pregnant, therefore entitled to it. ADMIN MOD. I work five days a week and wife works part time - two days with the kid and three days at work while the kid is in childcare. Literally the next day after I got to work, I got tons of calls and texts from my inlaws "congratulating" me for my "pregnancy". It's called revealed preference - you show what you want by what you choose to do, not by what you say you want. My boyfriend (28) moved in with me because of it, it wasn’t expected but we’re making do. No momentous occasional just a normal family get together. Thats a long story, the basics are it was Pregnancy is NOT a disability unless the Doctor specifically put her on bed rest (even then you can clean around her) The Noise from the vacuum is not stressful for the baby at all, in fact when my baby was first born she wouldn’t sleep without white noise we used the vacuum or hair dryer. AITA for telling my brother that his wife was "faking a pregnancy". AITA for causing a scene when my sister (26) stole my pregnancy announcement? My sister Lila (28F) and I (34F) are both the children of a single mother. Especially since they weren’t the ones to tell you because they most likely didn’t want to hurt you. Lol, the daughter is just as bad. However, we were hit about a month ago and while we weren’t hurt, I no longer felt like her car seat was safe so I replaced it. If a pregnant person cannot perform their normal duties, the company must find them a suitable alternative. S. I (33f) live with my brother (32m) and his new wife (34f). A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. funzies86. Right off the bat, it was made known I had fertility issues and likely wouldn’t ever be able to father a child. I was on bedrest. They were both friends with my husband at university, and I became close with them. 1. I hope you’re proud of your little display of power and control and I hope the anxiety you caused your daughter was worth it. My wife lost it, told me she was carrying Me and my husband 30M have been trying for a baby for the last few years with no luck, however we've now found out I'm pregnant which is incredible, but the due date is around my sisters wedding She's really unhappy about it since I'm going to either be heavily pregnant and ready to pop any moment, unable to go because I'm in hospital, or with We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Losing a child, a child you wanted and were readying the nursery for, is fucking traumatic. NTA, her choices don’t make sense When my son was 10, I caught my wife cheating and got a divorce. The overwhelming opinion on AITA was that the babysitter shouldn't have let their own mother in. She offered an alternative of staying in our country for a break away together but the country we live in is notoriously expensive to holiday in, I would rather spend the same amount of money on a sunny holiday. Pick up meds for them. Sam and I went to a party for his family. AITA for not eating, despite being pregnant? My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years and I'm currently 8 months pregnant. Fast forward about a year and she meets a guy (he's 28) online and "falls in love". I moved slow in the relationship, although I had Also "she says Im mean for calling a pregnant woman selfish" Fuck absolutely all of that nonsense. Weve been trying for a while and IVf was thankfully successful finally. more replies. Sierra has been trying to get pregnant for many years while this will be Selena’s second child. The cost of allowing women just to keep their positions for 6 weeks after giving birth (not paid leave, just not allowed to be fired anymore for having a child) was supposedly going to bankrupt companies in the U. "I'm pregnant!!!" She would say. My sister is 6 months pregnant and I’ve come to visit her and my mom for a couple of days. This wasn't abnormal so I didn't think anything of it, until my sister said she had some exciting knews. when the extremely basic FMLA (Family medical leave act) was being debated in the early 1990's. a have impulse getaways. Your mother wants to go to her favorite restaurant on her birthday and eat what she wants. We lost the baby right before 17 weeks. It's a super normal part of fucking nature - she is not that special. You shouldn’t have to prove you’re not pregnant, she should take your word, and even in the face of a pregnancy test, she refuses. I was also very quiet and well behaved while my sister was wild. Her boyfriend’s been living here for a while and she recently told me that she’s pregnant. Both kids can be cling ons though and I'm not sure AITA? Rant. Instead of admitting fault she threw a hissy fit and tried to defend her actions by claiming her pregnancy should absolve her of her bad behavior. It will only end up toxic, bitter and unhappy for all of you. The baby’s birthday was estimated to be 08/13/2022. AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? I (21F) recently found out I’m pregnant (woo…/s) getting to the 6 month mark, it’s a complicated pregnancy and I’m exhausted. You are better off concentrating only on yourself and your son. ESH. All have great friends and, of those in relationships, solid partners. Yep, the sad reality is that OOP isn't going to be able to exclude the grandpa from the baby's life legally. Secondly, your SIL cheated and got caught. They recently had a baby shower which my SIL asked me and my mother (65F) to help organize/decorate/and cook for along with her own sisters and ADMIN MOD. It can take healthy couples a year to conceive! That being said, if she does end up pregnant and her due date is around your wedding timeframe, then it would be perfectly acceptable to ask her to step down. She is still using her infant car seat. You can't whip out the pregnant card to guilt people. I had never met her before she moved in. My oldest two (4f) (2m) are super excited to be having another sister. That's not enabling. We had been married for 4 years, together for a total of 9 years. Your compromise was all about what your wife would want. This can extend to family who is trying to juggle work and taking their loved one to chemo/Md appts and such. Domestic violence and cheating both hugely increase in odds when a woman gets pregnant. Twin pregnancy is significantly higher risk and metabolic demand than a singleton pregnancy. Reply reply. It doesn’t suddenly turn women into assholes. In reading your explanation it’s completely understandable, but you had to know it wouldn’t go over well. Even though we are pregnant again and hoping for the best outcome, my wife has shared that she senses August will be emotional. Heal yourself, help your son. During my pregnancy I have had intense cravings. This concern takes place at my mother's house. You just sat there as this all unfolded so I can't see how you're at fault at all. AITA for being more excited for my daughter-in-law's pregnancy than my daughter's? Not the A-hole. I’m not particularly looking forward to sharing a house with a screaming baby, but it’s her house too and she has every right to be here and raise her kid. ADMIN. The problem is at the moment she can not This is like aita bingo. As soon as we found out, positive test at 5 weeks, we shared on our family chat because we were very excited! The family chat includes my dad, my brother (22M) and his wife (21F). We were all chatting and enjoying dinner together when Kelly stood up to make an announcement. NTA. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I announced my pregnancy to my parents at my sister's wedding, which is usually socially unacceptable, despite that being the original plan. My daughter got pregnant the second year into college, it was not a good time. Obviously, they baby will need a bedroom Maybe she gets pregnant, maybe she doesn’t. We had just arrived about 20 minutes prior. Read the comments to see who is the asshole. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. Seems she just assumed she wouldn't have to pay for it, since some sucker was going to move. My sister had 6-7 miscarriages before she was able to have a successful pregnancy. Throwaway because I have too much personal stuff on my main. Seriously, someone nominate this man for knighthood. Toxoplasmosis, which lives in cat poop, is pretty much only a risk for healthy people if it is contracted while a woman is pregnant. She should have booked another seat she wanted herself or not gone on the flight. just had my gender reveal - we are so excited that it’s a girl! immediately afterwards, my husband (24 y/o)’s twin sister, whose a committed virgin till marriage and not dating/barely ever dated, sat me down to let me know what girl names she has “reserved We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Lol. She said she didn’t want the food that was made and wanted my wife’s food. My doctor told my husband to hang in there. While we were at the party I told Sam I was craving a slushee. I would logically conclude women who want to be pregnant and want to have the baby would take at least some healthy measures, i. Can’t come to any other conclusion than abuse. My other friend’s, Nick, wife saw. The fact that your mom refuses to believe you is bizarre. My husband I (30M) are expecting a baby via surrogacy later this year. My daughter is 23 (I'm dad btw). Talk to them about the emotions. OP shares how he cut off his sister who abused him and his wife, and refuses to help her financially. OP I’m sorry you’re dealing with this crazy. Run errands for them. I’m only telling you this because I want to reassure you that a better life is both possible and likely thanks to the decisions that you are making. AITA for refusing to rent to my pregnant friend. My brother and I have never been close, so my SIL haven't been either. AITA for screaming at my sister after announcing my pregnancy. not drink energy drinks. Some back story. They successfully stole one kid but the next woman was smarter and moved out while pregnant bc she knew what they were going to do. NTA- your sisters a walking headache and your parents are enablers. I tested all my childreb and 3 were mine, but my oldest 10yo son was not. On phone. No, the likely thing based on the information is that she's hyperanxious due to the pregnancy and is fixating on the dog. AITA for trying to bond with my pregnant sister during my surrogacy journey? Asshole. We all got our food and his wife, Caroline, went and grabbed the plate that was for my wife. So, I got me one of those fake postive pregnancy tests and threw it in the bedroom's trashcan. This surprised us a lot as they could barely afford food, were skipping paying on bills, live in a 1 bedroom flat, they’re heavy smokers and are really bad with money a. Scary-Moment-8975. My sister (31F) and her husband conceived just a little while Tldr: I didn’t know sister was pregnant and made the first pregnancy announcement. I (25M) have been with my wife (29F) for about 6 years, she’s 7 months pregnant with twins and they’re our first children. The flight attendants are at fault for not mediating. As my wife is 29 weeks pregnant, she would be unable to fly, so I said that I would go alone. AITA for making my pregnant wife cry? Not the A-hole. My sister is 15 and pregnant with a 31 yo man's kid. About 30 minutes away. ) That is why pregnant women are advised to not scoop litterboxes for the duration of their pregnancies. It would probably get people talking for ten minutes but then the conversation would change and it’s back to the wedding or food or dancing or drinking or talking. She announced to us that she was pregnant with her boyfriend’s child. Sister is upset due to complicated family dynamic. Trailsya. Her reasons may have been important to her, and ultimately they were more important than having kids (even if that was something she also wanted). A wedding is a whole event and a pregnancy announcement isn’t. k. My brothers gf started to lose her mind about us “parenting” her kid for her, resulting in my husband getting loud with her about how the kid is a brat and needed it. (Not usually a problem if it is contracted prior to pregnancy or after. dk hp yc eg qi wq iy ye qu kd